We have now completed the first quarter of teaching and learning for the 2015-16 school year. These posts focused on building a community to serve as a foundation for the content and critical thinking skills we teach and our students learn during the first month of this academic year. With a strong and safe community started, the second month of posts focused on verbs and nouns that can be used to elevate students understanding and mastery of the 21st Century college and career skills they need when they leave us.
This week I am turning to pronouns to merge both tending to our community while using powerful language that will enable our students’ intellectual growth.
How might a salutation sting or a pronoun be powerful?
Many of us address our classes with “Ladies and Gentleman.” The salutation is meant as a form of respect - letting our students know that we don’t see them as children.
But to honor the diversity, including gender identity, in our community, it it time to review and potentially revise our choice of nouns and pronouns.The respectful language we expect and employ can protect and build the identity safety students need to grow.
Use a student's name instead of the potentially incorrect pronoun. Speak of “adults in your lives” rather than of parents, to honor those students who do not live with their parents. Substitute participant for citizen. Perhaps even greet the class as Academic Aztecs, Educated Eagles, or Scholarly Spartans to respect gender diversity.
Changing our common nouns and pronouns will protect and honor some of our most vulnerable students and model thoughtful speaking and listening for all of our students.
MVLAUSHD does a great job of caring for and about all of our students and purposefully fostering a safe community, but painful language use persists for our students.
Data as a call to action
In their February 2014 publication, the California School Boards Association policy brief, the authors cited a study illustrating the common experience students have hearing hurtful speech:
In a national study* of students in grades 6-12, the majority reported hearing homophobic remarks frequently or often: 85 percent frequently or often heard “gay” used in a negative way, 71 percent heard other homophobic remarks and 61 percent heard negative remarks about students not acting “masculine enough” or “feminine enough.”
*Kosciw, J.G., Greytak, E.A., Bartkiewicz, M.J., Boesen, M.J., & Palmer, N.A. (2012). The 2011 National School Climate Survey: The Experiences of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Youth in Our Nation’s Schools. New York: Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network. Available athttp://bit.ly/1ekZRv9
Our own words as teachers – while never intentionally painful – are particularly poignant for students. Potentially easier than the homework and revision policy discussions, we can also review the messages we send through our language.
One purpose of public high schools is to have one more chance at developing positive and powerful participants for our democratic society. Purposeful pronouns and inclusive nouns can be a start as we continue to build a safe community and model our own growth mind set for our students.
Thank you to my many colleagues in the MVLAUHSD who helped to articulate this concern.
A few more sources:
Teaching Tolerance’s Best Practices: Creating an LGBT-inclusive School Climate and